Why College Weekends Matter
As the semester rolls into its final stretch, many families find themselves navigating
the familiar tug-of-war between home and campus life. It’s natural to miss your student
and for them to miss you. Frequent weekend trips home can be tempting for them but
this can unintentionally slow their adjustment and growth. In this issue, we dive
into why weekends on campus aren’t just a scheduling decision. They are opportunities
for your student to connect, grow, and make the most of their college experience.
Building Connection and Confidence
Spending time on campus and in Cookeville allows students to meet people, explore
campus activities, and get involved in clubs or organizations. These moments outside
the classroom are where students find their footing and create their support network.
Leaving every weekend can unintentionally isolate them from peers who are spending
time bonding, studying together, or attending campus events. The more time students
spend at school, the faster they start to feel like they belong here, which helps
ease homesickness in the long run.
Making Weekends Count
It’s not uncommon for students to say there’s “nothing to do” on the weekends, but
in reality, campus and the surrounding Cookeville community are full of opportunities
for those willing to explore. From club events and game nights to local outings and
campus activities, weekends offer the perfect chance to recharge while staying connected.
Encourage your student to check out Eagle Outdoors, where they can rent camping and
watercraft gear for group adventures. All this information can be found on the Eagle
Outdoors Website. Weekends are also a great time to catch up on coursework, take on
a part-time job, or discover the beautiful state parks nearby. These experiences not
only help students unwind, they also foster independence, friendships, and a deeper
sense of belonging in their college home.
How Parents Can Help
Parents play a big role in helping students stay rooted on campus. This starts by
checking in with your own expectations. Are you encouraging them to come home or giving
them space to settle in? Instead of inviting them back every weekend, plan a visit
to campus, send a care package, or help them find something fun to do with friends.
Weekends are for exploring college life and helps your student gain confidence, independence,
and a true sense of belonging. It is never too late, despite the semester being over
half way over there is still time to encourage your student to make connections on
campus. With final exams approaching, urge your student to spend the last few weekends
they have with their friends on campus studying and making memories before coming
home for the holidays.
The Bottom Line
The best way for students to thrive is by being present and engaged. Encourage your
student to stay on campus and grow their connection within Cookeville. It may be tough
at first, but giving them room to experience the full rhythm of campus life is one
of the best gifts a parent can give.
Resources:
https://www.collegeparentcentral.com/2024/08/why-college-weekends-matter/
https://www.tntech.edu/recreation/eagles-outdoors.php
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